Your partner can bend their knees slightly

How to Squirt: A Guide to Unlocking Intense Orgasms

Then, all you need to worry about is what position you penetrate her at. Now is not the time to worry about lasting longer, just focus on the position you use. My one concern in this position is making sure that you don’t apply too much pressure or press down too hard.

While it differs for everyone, female ejaculate tends to have no smell, and a slight sweet taste8. It can be colorless or slightly white, like watery milk. Numbers vary, but one study4 surveying 18 to 39 year old women, found that 69% experienced ejaculation with orgasm. (And yes, that number probably made them giggle too.) The International Society for Sexual Medicine5 estimates that between 10-50% of women experience ejaculation with sex or orgasm.

Ejaculation is a small amount of fluid secreted from our urethral glands at the time of orgasm. For some, it happens consistently in orgams, and others just when they’re really aroused in orgasm — but it’s always orgasm-related. Squirting, on the other hand, can be orgasm-related or not at all. Your woman can take full advantage of the depth of thrust while she’s able to pleasure her clit with a hand or sex toy. I’m about to give you five techniques for stimulating the g-spot, but know also that some women simply like when PRESSURE is applied to their g-spot without any added stimulation. So you might want to try these techniques, but your woman might end up realizing that she merely likes pressure with no other stimulation.

In the spooning position, both you and your partner lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner can bend their knees slightly, allowing you to penetrate from behind. This position allows for closeness and can potentially stimulate the G-spot. In this position, your partner straddles you and controls the movements. This allows them to find the most pleasurable penetration angle and depth.

Everyone thinks that to make her squirt, you need to perfect your fingering technique. They think that if she’s not squirting, it’s because they are not rubbing, not massaging or not pressing the correct way. We shouldn’t have to point this out, but consent is key! So, do make sure you’re both onboard with the concept of squirting before you proceed. Communication is important, but it can be sexy too, so connect with one another to ensure you’re always on the same page. If you’re feeling shy, try whispering your wants and desires to her.

If you can nail this down, you’ll be dominant in the bedroom. So, as you’re licking her clitoris, insert one or two fingers inside her vagina. Use the same “come hither” motion as discussed earlier. Curl your fingers towards her belly button while you’re using your tongue.

Furthermore, a clitoral trigger planned explicitly to amuse her is likelier to send her over the edge. If she’s never discharged, it might take considerably more effort. One significant obstruction to squirting for ladies is accepting they can’t. It might require some effort for her to receive something else.

«There are some times where you get booked for a squirt movie or something like that and you will pee because you’re over hydrating.» This is when water is inserted into the vagina, and the actress pushes it out to create an excessive squirting effect. «It’s hysterical because the director is like, ‘Okay how do you squirt, cut. Let’s just put one in there.’ And then, they’re like, ‘1, 2, 3, go!’ and you’re trying to roll.» She said sitting down with the other performer before the shoot and ensuring they could talk about how to get to the goal of squirting is crucial before starting the scene.

The combination of direct clitoral pleasure and G-spot pressure can lead to intense arousal. Some women have experienced an orgasm while squirting at the same time because of this. Doggy style puts your partner in an optimal position for the upward motion needed to provide the correct stimulation to achieve squirting.